4. Education, career or spiritual development
Like hobbies make a list of topics and areas you would like to develop in your education, career or spiritual growth. Then take any one and join/start a course, seminar or study group. Suddenly you will begin to meet new people and the potential of meeting the one God has for you will increase.
An additional bonus form doing the activities in 3 and 4 is that you will begin to feel good and productive. Your growth and development will cause you to feel fulfilled and joyful. These qualities are invisible magnets for potential mates to be drawn to you.
5. Sports or physical activities
Like number 3 and 4 above begin to get in involved in sports or physical activities that you like. Of course in addition to the exposure to other people your health and energy will increase. These are 2 extra things that will make you more attractive to people.
6. Online - no not dating sites
There are many ways to meet people online other than joining expensive and frustrating dating sites.
There are many free social sites, groups, forums and online boards that are teeming with people who have similar interests to you. Simply do a web search and join some of groups.
A friend of mine, form the UK, once set up a prayer group of people all over the world. As they prayed together using online technology like Skype and Whatsapp, they got to know each other more. He soon found out that he liked one of the girls who live half the way around the world in the Philippines. They formed a relationship now they are married with 3 lovely children.
7. Prayer and the guidance of the Holy Spirit
Jesus said he will sent the Comforter, the Holy Spirit that would lead us into all truth. Although most pastors usually interpret this to be theological truths, I think this can be applied to anything.
The Holy spirit can tell you what to do; where to go and what to say that would cause you to meet the one God has in mind for you.
Ask for guidance and listen to what the spirit tells you. Follow the guidance of the spirit may be surprised how and where you will lead to.