For couples who want To Defuse Fights In Minutes 

The Conflict Deactivator!

Stop Fights Before They Explode.

The Conflict Deactivator Guide gives you instant, word-for-word scripts to stop blow-ups, set boundaries, and protect your peace—without shutting down or losing your cool.
No more spirals. Just calm, clarity, and control—on demand.

Yes! I Want the Conflict Deactivator

A note from the desk of Hilton Samuel…

Does This Sound All Too Familiar?

You want peace. You care deeply. But every time a disagreement starts, you’re pulled into the same exhausting cycle:

  • Walking on eggshells just to avoid triggering another fight
  •  Getting emotionally flooded, with no way to hit pause without making things worse
  • Saying things you regret, even though you promised yourself you’d stay calm
  • Trying to explain how you feel—but it always ends in blame, shutdown, or silence
  • Feeling like you’re stuck in the same  fight on repeat, just with different words

And the worst part?
You know you’re not the enemy—but it still feels like you’re in a battlefield.

If this hits close to home, hear this clearly: It’s not that you lack emotional intelligence or love. It’s that you were never given the right tools—in the heat of the moment.

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Now Imagine This Instead:

  • You feel the tension rising—and instead of spiraling,
    you say one clear line that instantly changes the tone.
  • You protect your peace without punishing your partner.
  • You set a boundary without guilt.
  • You hit pause—without making it worse.

And you come back to the conversation calm, clear, and confident. Conflicts no longer hijack your day, your relationship, or your dignity. You’re not avoiding conflict—you’re just finally in control of it.

This isn’t wishful thinking. This is the power of having The Conflict Deactivator Toolkit—
a script system built for real life, real emotions, and real results.

The Old Way vs. The Conflict Deactivator Way

Approach

The Old Way (That Fails)

The Conflict Deactivator Way (That Works)

Your Conflicts

Explosive fights that damage trust

Productive conversations that build intimacy

Your Communication

Defensive & attacking

Calm & connecting

Your Results

Same fights, deeper wounds

Deeper love, stronger bond

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Here’s What You’ll Discover Inside The Complete System

This isn’t just a book. It’s a complete marriage transformation system that works even when everything else has failed:

✅ Chapter 1: The Hidden Cost of High-Conflict Cycles – Why traditional advice (like “just talk it out”) makes fights worse, and the emotional toll that’s slowly killing your marriage. 
✅ Chapter 2: Know Your Conflict Triggers – How to recognize the signs in your body before things boil over, plus the 3 most common emotional “tripwires” in high-conflict marriages.
✅ Chapter 3: Conflict Isn’t the Enemy – Why avoiding conflict creates MORE problems, and how healthy disagreements actually strengthen intimacy and trust.
✅ Chapter 4: The Fight Formula – The exact anatomy of every argument (attack → defend → repeat) and why logic completely shuts down when you’re triggered.
✅ Chapter 5: The Deactivator Blueprint – The proven 3-phase method: Pause → Reset → Reconnect, with word-for-word scripts for the first 5 minutes of any conflict.

And more…

🧰 PLUS: You’ll Get These Clarity Tools FREE

🎁The Conflict Blueprint Checklist
🎁 Quick Fight Deactivator Script Sheet
🎁 Self-Regulation + Boundary Script Toolkit
🎁 The Deactivator Blueprint Worksheet
🎁 Journal Prompts to Stay Anchored in Truth

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The Conflict Deactivator 

  • All Companion Tools

✅ Immediate download
✅ 100% faith-rooted and emotionally wise
✅ Zero fluff. All clarity.

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