Do you actually like and trust the person?

Attraction

Attraction is not everything, but it is important.

It shouldn’t be the only factor in determining if you will date or court someone.

Attraction can be triggered instantly or it can develop over time. In most western cultures most couples tend to want to have some sort of attraction/chemistry to decide to be in a relationship. This is what I call the ABC model of relationship

• A. Attraction
• B. Bond
• C. Commit

The Bible seem to emphasise the opposite approach

• C. Commit
• B. Bond
• A. Attract

In this course we will explore a variety of tools and strategies to evaluate if someone is a good match fore you.